Safety Tips

Never share personal information like your address, workplace, or financial details

Use FlameLink's messaging system until you feel comfortable sharing your phone number

Be cautious of users who ask for money or seem too good to be true

Trust your instincts - if something feels off, it probably is

Keep your social media profiles private until you know someone well

Always meet in a public place for first dates (coffee shops, restaurants, parks)

Tell a friend or family member where you're going and who you're meeting

Plan your own transportation - don't rely on your date for rides

Stay sober and alert during first meetings

If you feel uncomfortable, it's okay to leave at any time

Profiles with limited or professional-looking photos only

Users who refuse to video chat or talk on the phone

Someone who pushes for personal information too quickly

Inconsistent stories or details about their life

Aggressive or pushy behavior, especially around meeting up

Use video calls to verify identity before meeting in person

Be wary of users who avoid phone calls or video chats

Report and block users who send inappropriate content

Don't feel pressured to respond immediately to messages

Screenshot important conversations if you have concerns